
Might Mean
Duality: choice, establishing boundaries, mutual respect, attachment, distance, separation, shadow unconscious and projection onto others
Individuality: reinforcing the ego, prefer one above all others, standing up for oneself, self-defense, asserting personal needs, individualism
Opposition: resistance, confrontation, challenging the other or the status quo, competition, jealousy, control, tension, protest, disagreement, fighting, war, tearing apart
Individuality: reinforcing the ego, prefer one above all others, standing up for oneself, self-defense, asserting personal needs, individualism
Opposition: resistance, confrontation, challenging the other or the status quo, competition, jealousy, control, tension, protest, disagreement, fighting, war, tearing apart
For Example
Movie Clips & Videos:
Adam Driver: "Marriage Story" Is A Love Story About Divorce,
St-Vincent – good fences makes good neighbors,
Don Quixote – study in opposites, creativity, and individualism,
Jung, Projection, and Love, Different Kinds of Love – Joseph Campbell
St-Vincent – good fences makes good neighbors,
Don Quixote – study in opposites, creativity, and individualism,
Jung, Projection, and Love, Different Kinds of Love – Joseph Campbell
Podcasts:
Rallying To Keep The Game Alive (Modern Love),
Sleeping With The Enemy (a man befriends his girlfriend's animus, or male aspects of a female’s psyche)
Rallying To Keep The Game Alive (Modern Love),
Sleeping With The Enemy (a man befriends his girlfriend's animus, or male aspects of a female’s psyche)
Writings:
Fables of the Hummingbirds and Doves,
How To Fix the Fights You're Sick of Having,
The Guide to Strong Boundaries, Maybe You Don't Know What Love Is,
The Most Important Factor in a Relationship is Respect,
How the Male and Female in Us Affect Relationships,
The Paradoxical Psychology of Romance,
Catullus on The Agony of Infatuation
Fables of the Hummingbirds and Doves,
How To Fix the Fights You're Sick of Having,
The Guide to Strong Boundaries, Maybe You Don't Know What Love Is,
The Most Important Factor in a Relationship is Respect,
How the Male and Female in Us Affect Relationships,
The Paradoxical Psychology of Romance,
Catullus on The Agony of Infatuation
"Just as it is customary for people to believe that pain and sadness should be avoided under all circumstances, they believe that love means the absence of any conflict... Real conflicts between two people, those which do not serve to cover up or to project, but which are experienced on the deep level of inner quality to which they belong, are not destructive. They lead to clarification, they produce a catharsis from which both persons emerge with more knowledge and more strength. "
– Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving (p.95)


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